Family
Dinners Build Family Bonds
There is
nothing that beats coming home to a home cooked meal and
having family dinners together. After a long day at the office for
parents or at school for the kids, it is such a pleasure to just unwind
in the evening at the dinner table sharing a family meal together.
CHATTER AT THE DINNER TABLE
Having
dinner with the family is so important to build family bonds. It
allows us to communicate with the children and to learn more about
their activities, what they have been up to at school and to listen to
their problems.
The key is to have a conversation with the children so
that they are willing to talk openly and not fear being scolded or
reprimanded. Having dinner together certainly helps to cultivate an
atmosphere of trust and openness among family members. There is no
better time or place to talk and chit chat than during dinner time at
the dinner table.
FAMILIES THAT DINE TOGETHER STAY TOGETHER
It is a fact
that families that have dinner conversations together
experience fewer problems with their children, especially pre-teens and
teens. Having dinner together results in fewer problems with children
smoking, taking or experimenting with drugs, having pre-marital sex and
alcohol abuse.
THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY DINNERS
A
comprehensive report was published by The National Center on
Addictions and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University. The
report makes for very interesting and insightful reading. It
summarizes the importance of having dinner as a family in its finding:
"..one factor that does more to reduce teens' substance abuse risk than
almost any other is parental engagement, and one of the simplest and most
effective ways for parents to be engaged in their teens' lives is by
having frequent family dinners." The report even goes so
far as to co-relate the frequency of having dinner together as a family
with the percentage of teenage drug abuse. And, get this - the
report states that teens who have frequent family dinners are likelier
to get better grades at school. You can read the full report here.
NOURISH YOUR FAMILY BONDS WITH EASY MEAL IDEAS
In our home,
we make it a point for our children to have dinner
together with us at the dinner table. Rarely do we allow them to watch
TV while having dinner as that would defeat the purpose of
communicating effectively.
We find that when we order take out food or
fast food, the kids tend to take that as a cue to eat in front of the
TV. But if we have a home cooked dinner, then it's a different thing
and we all sit down at the dining table.
So, nourish your family bonds at the dinner table. We'll help provide
the easy meal ideas so you can do just that!
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